Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Live in Relationship




On the facet of contemporarily emerging trend and highly influential western culture has actually brought about numerous of alteration in traditional Indian society and its cultural & ethical value which however has been swollen hard by the social reformers in current scenario, in the race live-in relationship is the hottest topic in the maarket, though the matter of live-in relationship accomplished to gain the legal stamp on to its practice nevertheless it has not been accepted by the society and its people-matures in particular (above 40 years of age).
Considerably the Honb'le Supreme Court of India legalized this practice in year 2008. According to which two opposite genders are legally free to live/accomodate together within the same premises and and are free to do whatever they want to within the perimeters of Law & Order. It leads to the confliction between conventional people and modern generation. But it at least assured of one thing that it sets people free and safe to pursue the live-in relationship practice.
In Indian society marriage is known as a legal and social bonding between two individuals who can live together, could share the same bed and have sex with their respective partner. And when it comes to sex before marriage it become misery for the indian culture provided until one is not busted. For having sex one has to be legally tied with it's partner thats the ideology, denial of which could result in expulsion or some wierd litigation from the head of the society.
If we consider the fact of modernization and competitor-ship than it sounds absolutely contrary to counter these kinds of budding issues such as live-in relationship. On one hand it's essential for the present generation to adapt and be acquainted with technologies, education and other studies contrarily advocating for such issues. There is no objection on the point that these are sensitive issues but sentivity should always be catered and dealt with fragility. Where on one side India is the largest democratic nation and here is everyone free and equal and when the one thinks or commits something beyond par then it turns out to be provocative and irrational.
Live-in relationship ais not all about being too passionate, strolling waivered and more specifically doing sex with the partner while just satisfying the physical needs of each other, rather it encompasses with variety of commitments and mutual pacts. Meanwhile the couple tries to get along with each other's attitude, behaviour and reactions, which could further emphasize on a successfull marriage yeilding positive results but, pity! negativity always has the upper hand.
However, specifically for females it's a big issue of loosing virginity before getting married but for a person who has the courage and boldness to be affirmative in live-in relationship, for them virginity is a miniature to deal with. Relentlessly it's a marriage before marriage which doesn't always focus on agonizing issues for the mighty society.

Comprehensions, etiquettes, regard and respect (for relationships of any kind) are some values which are not encoded in any constitution of the state. But they carry a bulk of ethical values determined to harmony into the society. Acceptance and rejections never matters if justice, fairness and companionship prevail.